A few tips and ideas for hosting your own dinner party.

Here are a few tips I put together for those who want a little guidance on hosting a dinner party

Dinner Party Tips - Linda Smith - Your Fine Living Muse & High-Heeled Hostess

Do you enjoy entertaining and hosting dinner parties, do you love to be the perfect host and see how your friends react to all of the beautiful touches and recipe selection, or do you completely dread the thought of planning a dinner party?   The magic of any type of party planning is to have a good plan to follow.  With a little planning on your part, you will be hosting a party to remember.  And remember, keep things simple so that you too can enjoy your own dinner party. This could include hiring a hostess helper. 

Who should you invite to this dinner party?

Deciding who to invite can be the hardest part of hosting a dinner party.  One thing to keep in mind is that you want to make sure to have an eclectic mix of people that can can all get along and easily interact with each other.  If this is your first party, I would suggest starting with your close friends that already know each other. 

Who would want drama during their dinner.  Not me, that's for sure.  

Who should you not invite as a guest?

You can't always be in control of who comes as a dinner guest, ie: a boyfriend or girlfriend of your dinner guest, but if you can help it, I would put these potential guests, last on my list.... , the drama queen, the gossiper, the one that talks over others, or someone that is just plain mean and rude.  

How many dinner guests should you invite?

I would like to suggest that you limit the amount of dinner guests to the number of chairs that fit comfortably around your dinner table.  No one wants to hit elbows or have someone so close that if they turn to talk, they feel uncomfortable (some people really like their personal space).  You might also want to take into consideration the size of your table. If you can seat 12, that's fine, but make sure your seating arrangement allows a good mix of guests.  You don't want to place all of the shy guests at one end and the conversation starters on the other. 

Setting the Table for your dinner party:

If possible, set your table as early as possible.  First, this will lessen your stress knowing it's done.   It will allow you time to think of creative table decor ideas and work on them.  Think about your dinner party and the style.  Is it going to be formal where a white tablecloth, silver, and an elegant flower arrangement with candles sets the stage or is it going to be informal and casual.  Just keep in mind what will be on your table and how you will protect it from steam or water stains on the wood. 

Dinner Menu and Dinner Recipes:

Once again, if you can take care of things in advance, such as coming up with a dinner menu, buying food for the dinner recipes, and then prepare as much of the meal as possible in advance.   This will allow you more time to socialize and enjoy mingling with your guests.

  

Not a good cook?  There are some amazing places that sell prepared meals, such as a caterer or restaurant. You could even consider hiring a private chef. 

Here is a party plan timeline you might want to try.

No less than one week beforehand:

Choose your dinner party menu - don't forget to find out if any of your guests have food allergies if you are going to be serving anything with nuts, milk products, gluten, shell fish.

Create your dinner party shopping list.

A few days before the dinner party:

Purchase all of the products for your recipe that will keep well and be fresh for the dinner party. If you are serving fish or something that should be fresh, make time and plans to pick up the morning of your party.  

Call your butcher, fish market, or bakery, to request your dinner food is ready and waiting for you.

For beverages, select a wine that works well with your dinner menu.  If you are unsure, most high end liquor stores have someone, on staff, that can help you, but you can do a Google Search very easily buy typing in your questions as if you would say it "what wine goes with.................."

If you are using special silver, china or glassware, polish them up and set them out.

The day before the dinner party:

Tidy the house.

Make any dishes that can be made the night before.

The Day of the Party:

Clean your house, especially the room where you will be dining and the restroom.

Buy any last minute ingredients.

Set your table 

Start cooking your dinner recipes.

The of the Dinner Party:

Tackle any last minute tidying up like pillow fluffing and a quick sweep

Get yourself all dressed

Light the candles

Turn on the music.

And most important, if you can, give, yourself at least ten minutes where you can sit and relax.  You deserve it.